Dedication
choosing to stay or go
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choosing to stay or go
alive, well, and here with me.
Aunt Betty
for auntie and her fam.
passed on
Tammy and Bret

The family, that dear octopus from whose tentacles we never quite escape, nor in our innermost hearts ever quite wish to.
- Dodie Smith

THE CHOICE TO STAY OR GO ALWAYS RELIES ON THE PPLE WHO ARE CONSIDERING LEAVING...
 
JUST PLEASE WHEN MAKING SUCH A CHOICE THINK OF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU THE PEOPLE WHO DO TRUELY CARE WEATHER YOU CAN SEE IT OR NOT THEY DO CARE AND YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THIER LIVES..

You don't choose your family.  They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.  ~Desmond Tutu

PEOPLE HAVE CHOICE TO LEAVE ME AND OTHERS THAT CARE... IT HURTS TO KNOW IT WAS THIER CHOICE, BUT IF THEY ARE HAPPIER GONE THEN THERE IS NOTING I CAN SAY OR DO TO BRING THEM BACK.
 
 Aunt Betty-> I just have one question.... Why? Why did you choose to leave us? What made you choose to go? Do you know how much I miss you? Do you know how much it hurt for you to go? Moving is one thing ok yeah you moved no biggy. what is the biggy is that you kinda make no effort to contact us or even reply to me (donno if u respond to others)
 
Uncle Fred and Uncle Martin-> because you chose to go I never got the chance to know you. So I kinda can't miss you but I can sit and wonder what your like.
 
Aunt Kim-> I don't recal ever telling you how much I cared and now your gone forever. You chose to go and don't have the ablity to return. If I told you how much I cared would you still be there?